Monday, August 1, 2011

Signs that he wants to be more than friends

When friendship suddenly turns into more. Know what signs to look for.


You’ve been friends for a long time. You tell each other everything, even who you’re dating and how it’s going. Then suddenly it happnens. The change-over occurs, without realizing it this comfortable, easy-going friendship becomes more romantic, It’s more cuddly, and warmer. Next thing you know, the two of you are a full-blown couple. Here are signs that you and your guy friend, your bud, your bro …etc have transformed into a hot romantic duo.
Your friends start making very obvious comments.
All of a sudden every time you go out with a group of friends (and you and your guy pal are there) comments slip out about how cute the two of you would look as a couple, how into each other you two are, and how compatible your personalities are. your friends may often see the romance spark before you do!

You find yourself making or receiving a daily call, often right before bedtime.
Out of nowhere, before you even noticed, the two of you started talking every day, at length, about nothing, and you’re secretly loving it.

Unplanned, you find you have developed pet names for each other.
It used to be a “Hey, Bro” kind of thing. Now, it’s “Sweetie this” and “hey Babe” that. His texts now include the added “Sweetheart” and “Doll.” You don’t point it out and make things awkward. You just let your heart melt and start answering to this new litany of adorable pet names.

Pats on the back become arm and hand intertwining.

Whether it’s watching the game or playing catch in the park, what used to be high-fiving and patting on the back friend-style becomes a softer, gentler hand-holding, draping arms on shoulders, sitting on laps, and hugging kind-of thing which leads, inevitably, to that first little sweeter-than-Hershey’s kiss on the forehead.

when all these signs are there, its bound to happen! Let us know if you’ve had these happen to you in the comment box below

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Signs that He Wants to Be Just Friends

Does he like like you, or does he just want to be friends? well now you can stop wondering and figure it out with these 7 signs!
1. He Invites Other People to Hang Out with You Guys
You’re so stoked that he called and invited you to check out the county fair with him…until you find out he’s also invited three other people. If he wanted to be more than friends, he wouldn’t share you with anyone else. 2. His Emails Are Friendly, But to-the-Point
He emails you to set up a time to hang out, forward you an article, or occasionally to just see what you’re up to. However, once the initial exchange of information is over, he won’t try to prolong the conversation. A chain will last no more than two messages each.
3. He Never Texts You First
And will sometimes take hours to respond to your text.
4. He’ll Ask You For Advice on Girls
In high school, asking a girl you liked for advice on a different girl was textbook flirting strategy, and the perfect opportunity to gauge how she felt about you. But as adults, men generally won’t ask a girl he’s into for pseudo-advice on someone else. If he likes you, he’ll want you to know.
5. He’ll Ask to Hang Out Day-of
He’ll text you at six p.m. to see if you want to grab dinner or see a movie. This means he was looking for casual plans, and thought of you—but if he liked you, he’d have made sure you were free well in advance.
6. He Doesn’t Offer to Pay
It’s 2011, and most men and women have reached a pretty egalitarian stance when it comes to sharing financial responsibility of dates: couples will take turns paying, and girls should always offer. But when a guy really likes a girl, a tiny, old-fashioned part of him will want to be gallant and foot the bill. If you insist on paying your way, he might give in, but he’ll at least offer to pay.
7. He Doesn’t Try to Kiss You
Unless he’s obviously super-shy (and you’ve recognized this trait in him) most guys can find the courage to plant one on a girl, if he likes her and has any reason to suspect that she likes him back.
Of course, when it comes to friends/more than friends, there’s always a gray area. Have you guys been in this situation? What signs let you know that he was or wasn’t interested?
credit: Chiara Atik

Sunday, June 26, 2011

Enjoy Life to the Fullest: The Choice Is Yours to Make

Are you choosing to enjoy your life to the fullest?
Joy, fulfillment and happiness don’t just grow on trees.  You can quote me on that!  I firmly believe we must pursue these states with intention.
You can either let your life and thoughts drift to wherever they may land including places like negativity, bitterness, depression, fear, discouragement and helplessness or you can take a stand.
I’ve consciously chosen to enjoy my life.  Does this mean that I always get what I want?  No way!  I experience the same trials, obstacles and setbacks that you do.  However, after a brief period of moping, I shake it off, get up and move on to better ground.
When it rains, we can either let ourselves drowned or we can go out and splash in the puddles.  Which is it going to be?
Are you choosing to enjoy your life to the fullest or are you allowing yourself to remain stuck in a bad place?  Please make no mistake about it.  It is a choice.  One that we all have to make day-to-day and moment-by-moment.




about me??as in me?? hehe


  
       A lot of girls would say "I'm not your typical girl". So, I'm not going to say that. I am going to tell you I am not your typical human being.I'm not your typical schoolmate.I'm not your typical classmate.
  I'm not typical!!oh yeah!!.haha. But I am Maria Vanessa Carcedo!! I never liked my name, even as a child but that was before!! yah, im starting to get used to it and now i even like it, yah super!!.. haha..It took seventeen years to create who I am today. wew, wat im trying to say is that im seventeen years old!! yahim just trying to say my age with a mix of drama!!haha.. i was born on march 06, 1994.
Every book has an unique story ,and every person has a different story ,too.i am myself.i am not of those kind of people who tend to be someone else.i only tend to be myself . living life to the fullest, I want to look back on life, and not have any regrets. I don’t want to say “I wish I would have done this” I want to do it! I want to live life at its fullest...bec. you only have one life to live
So, live simply…give more…expect less…and never regret about anything you did….life is a gift from god we all need to enjoy it as a whole….we have to accept the pain while enjoying the happiness….we can’t really understand our joy without facing pain….that is why hard times are the only way that make us appreciate our life


Monday, June 20, 2011

everytime i miz him-love guru

“ There comes a point where you miss someone so much that you can hear their voice echo in your head. And you can hear the names that they used to call you, the words they used to tell you. You memorized their laugh, their smile, and their silly ways.

You can also feel their arms around you and you don’t want to let go even though you know it’s just an illusion. Everytime you hear their name, your heart beats 100 times faster and sometimes, you can’t even breathe. You knew that looking back on the tears would make you laugh, but you never knew that looking back on the laughs would also make you cry. All you want is to go back in time, not to the time that you first met, but to the time that you were known as nothing, but strangers. But no matter what, you’re in denial. You hide your feelings so no one would know. You put on a fake smile and don’t let a single tear break through. You’re so used to hiding your feelings that you don’t even realize the pain you’re causing for yourself. Your thoughts become invisible. It’s still there, but no one knows. Like a love letter you didn’t show. And you’re hurting no one but yourself. ”